Brief introduction of outstanding graduate Cai Shuman:
就读于南京大学（本科）政府管理学院行政管理专业（劳动与社会保障方向） 绩点： 4.55 ；排名： 2/29 ；通过英语六级考试，总分 606 分；获得廖氏奖学金（校级）、人民奖学金二等奖（校级）、 南京大学优秀学生、南京大学优秀毕业生等荣誉。 2013.9-2017.6 Graduated from Nanjing University (Undergraduate) School of Government and Management (Major in Labor and Social Security) Grade: 4.55 ; Ranking: 2/29 ; Passed the CET-6 exam with a total score of 606 ; Liao scholarship ( School-level), Second Prize of People's Scholarship (School-level), Outstanding Students of Nanjing University, Outstanding Graduates of Nanjing University, etc. 在中国人民大学（硕士） 劳动人事学院 社会保障专业 绩点： 3.9 ；排名： 3/36 ，获得研究生学业奖学金一等奖、优秀研究生等荣誉。 2017.9 —2019.7 In the Social Security Special Achievement of Renmin University of China (Master) School of Labor and Human Resources : 3.9 ; Ranking: 3/36 , won the first prize of graduate scholarship, outstanding graduates and other honors. 至今，工作于中华全国总工会中国教科文卫体工会全国委员会办公室。 2019.7 to present, working in the office of the National Committee of the China Federation of Education, Culture, Health, and Sports Trade Union of the All-China Federation of Trade Unions.
Message to schoolmates:
Efforts will not be wasted, I wish all of my schoolmates and students can realize their dreams, and I wish my alma mater better and better.
: Outstanding graduate Cai Shuman parent tutoring experience introduction :
Start with the little ones and grow with your children
The first is to establish a good parent-child relationship. “ 只要孩子能跟你说实话，就能管理好、教育好 ” 。 When the child was very young, a respected old leader said to me, " As long as the child can tell you the truth, he can manage and educate well . " This simple word, I have been seriously thinking and working hard. Coupled with the child's special self-discipline, in the process of growing up, our mother and daughter get along like friends, and the parent-child relationship is particularly harmonious. When I was a kid, I took my child to the mall, and I paid attention to picking her up and letting her see things and think about things at the same height as me. Pay special attention to your child's difficulties in learning, and find the cause with the child in drizzle, find a way, trust the child, encourage the child, give the child enough confidence and time, wait for the flower to spend, and slowly solve the problem. As for some of the child's own methods and decisions, as long as it is not a matter of principle, we must strongly support and encourage them, even if there are some small flaws that can inspire children to actively correct, summarize experiences, learn lessons, and continue to improve.
The second is for parents to lead by example. Everyone knows that body education is more important than speech. Children have the shadow of their parents. It can also be said that children are the mirror of their parents. The character and habits of each child are formed by the long-term influence of parents. The child's father is a person who loves learning and reading. Thanks to his father's words and deeds, the child has developed a good habit of reading since childhood. When the child was young, we often took the child to work overtime on the weekends. The solid work style also affected her subtly. After school, the child felt that studying hard is a matter of course, and she had the inherent motivation to study consciously.
Third, the same mistake cannot be made a second time. As the child grows up, he will definitely make mistakes of all kinds. For these small mistakes, our parents pay attention to what is wrong with others, point out what is wrong in time, tell the child what to do, and give her the time to correct her. A hug makes the child feel the parent's tolerance, understanding and love, and the child will love this different way of caring, from which the child feels that the parent always loves her very much. But be sure to tell the child not to make the same mistake a second time.
The fourth is to tell children that learning is not a chore. “ 学习是一块馍，你用心嚼才能嚼出它的香味来。 ” 对孩子进行挫折教育也是非常重要，不可或缺的。 Doing everything in your study well, you will find that " learning is a piece of cricket, and you can chew its scent with your heart. " Frustration education for children is also very important and indispensable. As a child, I focused on taking her to the countryside to help my mother-in-law pick up cotton. After returning from labor, she also wrote an essay, "Pick up Fun in the Countryside", and experienced the hardships of farming in words; Let her experience the hardship that ordinary people make every penny. Through many concrete practices and case comparisons, it is fun for children to deeply understand that learning can increase knowledge, broaden their horizons, and have a more wonderful and beautiful life.
The fifth is to help children make a good winter and summer vacation learning plan. In the school, there are teachers' mentoring and strict management. We as parents are assured. During the vacation, especially the long winter and summer vacations, we can't let it go. This requires our patience to help our children develop a reasonable and acceptable learning plan, and urge them to complete each day on time.
The parent is the child's first teacher. The growth and progress of the child is inseparable from good family education. The parents demonstrate by example, follow the temptation, the child knows the importance of reading, develops good reading habits, and creates a harmonious and harmonious parent-child relationship. 2. Knowing how to appreciate the caring feelings of your parents will naturally have an inexhaustible motivation to study hard. Thanks to the guidance and efforts of the above aspects, the child has a better healthy growth and long-term development in the future. I hope my teaching experience can give you some inspiration and help. I hope that every family can cultivate a good child, a happy family, benefit the times, and benefit the society.