Outstanding graduate Cai Tingjian's personal profile:
Cai Tingjian, junior high school graduated from Gaoqing County Experimental Middle School, high school graduated from Gaoqing No. 1 Middle School, bachelor's degree and graduate degree from Renmin University of China, and Ph.D. from University of Munich, Germany. He is a full-time researcher at the University of Munich, Germany.
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： Outstanding student Cai Tingjian's family education experience :
，助力孩子成长 Focus on family education to help children grow
、岁月如梭。 Time flies and years pass by. 别样 岁月 及 往事不少已模糊不清， 但陪伴孩子成长 的 许多感受却 记忆犹新 、 难以忘 怀 。 More than ten years have passed since the child took the college entrance examination. Many different years and past events before the college entrance examination have been blurred, but many of the feelings that accompanied the child's growth are fresh and unforgettable . 孩子成 长 的历程， 有几多感触、几多欣慰、几多庆幸 。 Reflecting on the child's growth process, how many feelings, how comforting, how fortunate . 今天 有较好的成长及发展， 离不开对家庭教育的 重视及 家庭教育 与学校教育的 有机 结合，作为家长对孩子的教育，我们主要做到了以下几点。 The reason why children have good growth and development today is inseparable from the emphasis on family education and the organic combination of family education and school education . As parents' education of children, we have mainly achieved the following points.
1. Create a family atmosphere conducive to learning. 延 伸 ，家庭氛围就如同学校班级的班风，对孩子的学习会产生重要影响。 Family learning is an extension of school learning . The family atmosphere is like the school atmosphere, which will have an important impact on children's learning. As teachers, we did not deliberately create a family learning atmosphere. During the time when children were still in elementary school, the family dormitory was the office. They prepared lessons at home, graded homework, talked with students, read books, read newspapers, and wrote in their spare time. Materials, these have a subtle effect on children. 家长 不善言笑，使孩子产生敬畏的同时 潜移默化 、耳 濡目染，这种家庭氛围感染、影响、带动着孩子，促使他也喜欢读书，勤奋学习、严谨治学。 And our parents are not good at laughing and laughing, so that the child is in awe and at the same time subtle and jealous. This family atmosphere infects, affects, and drives the child, urging him to like reading, studying hard and studying rigorously.
2. Family education and school education complement each other. Home-school cooperation is basically that parents educate their children to be "obedient", listen to adults at home, and listen to teachers at school. The key is that parents repeatedly urge their children to form good family learning habits. For example, completing homework is the main task of the child after school. "Independence" and "complete" are the requirements of the teacher, which determines whether the homework can really work. 参 与 学习活动。 Strict parental supervision is required in the lower grades. This not only improves the child's self-control, but also forces the child to seriously participate in learning activities in school . 坚持下来，孩子就会逐渐形成良好的学习习惯，家长也就不需要日后艰辛的 马拉松式 “陪读”。 Persevere and persevere , the child will gradually develop good learning habits, and parents will not need the difficult marathon "accompanied reading" in the future .
注重 品行教育。 3. Pay attention to moral education. 品行是否端正 直接影响着孩子的未来 成长与 发展。 Morality is the foundation of a child's foothold in society. Whether or not it is correct directly affects the child's future growth and development. 我们从对孩子的基本品行规范落实抓起，处处事事严格要求，从不娇惯和纵容。 Therefore, we start with the implementation of the child's basic code of conduct, everything is strictly required, and we are never spoiled and indulged. 不仅 赢得了老师和同学们的赞许，也促进了 自身 学习进步 及 发展。 Children's good behavior not only won the praise of teachers and classmates, but also promoted their own learning progress and development.
The child has been lucky all the way from elementary school, junior high school to high school, because he was born in a family that values reading, met many teachers who are educated, and made a group of classmates who like to study. This may be because the children ’s performance has been compared. Ideally, there are reasons for great development in the future.